Closure.

So the whole ex's thing has made me thankful for my Husband. The other night I was chatting away with one of them. And I finally realised that there is now way that I would have stayed with him. He is the one ex that I never had closure. He just move to a different state after college, and we lost touch. So I always wondered what if.

So I don't know what it is that he said exactly, but I am now completely finished. I don't think it would even bother me if we never spoke again. I have no need to find out what he is up to anymore. I have finally closed that part of my life.

I have realise that what I have now is so much better, and doesn't even compare to anything that I have ever had in the past. So I am very thankful for this past week, I can now say that I have no regrets from my past.

Ex's

So recently some of my ex's have popped back in my life. Not actually in person, but on facebook. You will come to realise that I am addicted to facebook. Like I think all people should be. It has been very strange hearing from my ex's. it has been at least 7 years that we last spoke. I don't know why this month two of them decided to find me and catch up. It has been nice and strange at the same time.

I was never one to leave things in a bad place, so that is why it has been nice. Both of them now have children, and so have I. One of them is now married, one thing that I never thought he would do. He was the one that I always wondered what if. But chatting online with him these past few days, I think that I am probably better off. I have really come to believe that things happen for a reason. And I think that the reason that he came back into my life this week is to finally give the the closure that I never felt that I really had.

So has this happened to any of you? Do you ever wonder what happened to your ex's? Or am I the only one that these things happen to?

First post

This blog was created so I can speak/write freely about what is bothering me, without feeling the judgement of my mother in law. My hubby let leak my first blog address, and now I feel like I need a second blog that I can ban her from. Its not that I don't get along with my mother in law, or that I don't like her. I just think that there are things in my life that she doesn't need to know. Is there anyone else out there that feels the same way? Yes I know I might be crazy, but she feels like she has the right to share all the details about my life to everyone she meets. The day that my mother in law found my other blog address, she managed to share it with every contact in her address book. I don't need all of my husbands family knowing my business.

So this is it. My new secret Blog. My outlet for venting about things that drive me nuts. For venting about my mother in law. I hope you enjoy.